Cookie Cutter Education Can Take its Toll on Job Satisfaction

Never tell people how to do things. Tell them what to do

and they will surprise you with their ingenuity. —General George S. Patton

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Scripted curricula, manualized education plans with uniform outcomes and detailed discipline/ classroom management guidelines may be making schools more uniform, but what do they cost in terms of teacher health and children’s learning?

The latest federal schools and staffing survey reveals that teachers are continuing to feel they have less professional autonomy in every area from teaching strategies and amount of homework given to discipline. The loss is felt most by veteran teachers, those with ten years of experience or more. Sadly, a recent Gallup poll showed nearly 70 percent of teachers surveyed reported feeling disengaged from their work.  When teachers no longer feel connected to their work, they find it difficult to bring energy to the classroom and are less available for caring positive relationships with their students.  The emotional connection between teacher and student is one of the core elements of the learning process, one that cannot be prescribed in a ‘one-size-fits-all’ model.

To be fair, there may be such a thing as too much autonomy.  Not everyone works well with little direction.  When not managed well, an autonomous workplace can be seen as disorganized and chaotic and newer, less experienced teachers, often placed in high-needs areas, may struggle without greater administrative oversite.  Too much control and teachers burn out, too little and they can feel isolated and unsupported.

Students are expected to learn critical thinking and decision making skills, in essence generating their own critical independent thinking skills.  This can only be accomplished in an environment that embraces autonomy and creativity and allows for learning through trial and error.  When the school culture prohibits teachers from collaboration and innovation, when decisions are made top-down and void of input from teachers, students are robbed of the chance to see leadership in action.  Students need teachers who are enthusiastic about their craft and models for how to embody a love of knowledge and to create their own fulfilling work.

Teachers interact with the students of their schools on a daily basis. They know what works and what doesn’t.  Schools wishing to empower greater teacher autonomy can start by finding ways to include teachers in decisions concerning hiring and firing; learning materials; discipline; scheduling, budgets and salaries. Teachers can help encourage a more teacher-led approach by welcoming opportunities to collaborate, mentor and learn from one another.  In the end, it will be the students who reap the rewards as their teachers remain excited and committed to their passion for the profession.

 

Enough is Enough: The Dangers of Perfectionism

CaptureHe wasn’t really sure what to make of my comment.  To my client, the notion was ridiculous at best and most likely impossible.  “What if the very fact that you exist means you are worthy?” I had asked.  “What would your life be like if you were enough right now?”

He humored me at first, I think assuming this was the touchy-feely stuff of therapy.  But I pushed him. “No, really.  What would a day be like for you if everything you did that day was neither good, nor bad -just enough?”

“Well, I’d sure be a lot happier,” he said. “And I’d probably get a lot more done.” J is a perfectionist. He is also depressed. The expectations he has of himself are extraordinarily high. And the fear of not living up to those expectations has frequently rendered him unable to act at all.

Perfectionism is often mistakenly praised as a characteristic of highly successful achievers. But the all-or-nothing thinking and heavy focus on perfect results is quite self-destructive.  ‘Perfect’ doesn’t exist.  It can’t be achieved and those who seek it are never fully satisfied as they continuously evaluate and reevaluate their progress for what more could be improved.

This fear of failure or at least of mediocrity creates a feedback loop that encourages more anxiety.  J. is asked to write a summary report for his supervisor.  He becomes tense as he worries about it being perfect so he spends hours on it, editing and refining it.  He is convinced the extra time he is spending is improving the quality of the report so some of his tension is released which encourages him to continue the pattern of becoming anxious and deliberating over the work.

Sometimes he releases the tension of the worry by avoiding the report all together.  He then begins a lot of negative self-talk and judges himself for not being motivated, and sinks further into his depression.  J. has not yet come to believe that some of his greatest growth will come from his mistakes.  It’s likely that mistakes were not tolerated when he was younger, and certainly not celebrated as learning opportunities.

If you find yourself paralyzed by your own perfectionist predilections,  a change in perspective may be in order. First, review some of your most brilliant failures.  Can you remember a time when you learned something from a mistake or bad decision?  Make a list to refer to the next time you worry whether you will get something ‘right’. Mistakes tell us that we took a risk and pushed ourselves towards growth.

Next, practice non-judgement-of yourself, of experiences, of others.  Notice when you attach a value statement to an achievement, even if it’s positive.  Rushing to label an experience as ‘good’ or ‘bad’ cheats you of the time to appreciate the full moment. That sandwich you just ate was more than “awesome”, it was spicy, the bread was soft, it reminded you of the time you had a picnic with your younger brother. That lesson plan you delivered wasn’t “terrible”, it didn’t fit the needs of the class you had that morning. When you accept yourself and others as human, messy, flawed and imperfect, you are likely to see your anxiety lessen and may even experience more genuine relationships with others.

Finally, pay attention to your self-care.  When you are not eating or sleeping well or are feeling otherwise depleted you are likely to be more rigid and less tolerant of your anxiety and less accepting of your mistakes.